On Being A Woman in A Woman’s World

The genetic counseling profession is overwhelmingly female. Like about 90-95%, pretty much worldwide. Always has been, and, not seeing any imminent factors that are likely to change that percentage, I am guessing that it will continue to be a “female” profession for the foreseeable future. I am not exactly sure why this is so, though its historical roots provide a partial explanation. The founding parents of the profession and the original students were female, and the first training program was established at Sarah Lawrence College in 1969, an educational institution that until 1968 matriculated only females. Heck, I first learned about the profession when I read an article in Working Woman magazine nearly 40 years ago. Being female, if you will, is in the profession’s DNA.

Given the predominance of females in genetic counseling, I am often asked “What is it like being a male in a ‘female’ profession?” I don’t have a very articulate or insightful answer, and I usually respond with a mix of glibness (“Well, there are shorter lines at the restrooms during annual conferences, now that women no longer take over the men’s restrooms like they used to when conference centers had fewer women’s restrooms.”) and thoughtful gravitas (“As a student and novice, it was difficult finding a male role model or mentor.”). Mostly, though, I just go to work each day and try to do my job as well as I can, and I usually don’t spend much time thinking about the impact of my gender on my interactions with patients or colleagues unless a particular set of circumstances warrants it.

The recent celebration of International Women’s Day got me to thinking about the obverse question – “What is it like being a woman in a woman’s world? What are the pros and cons?” No doubt there is significant variability among work settings, but based on years of observation of the profession and informal discussions with colleagues, I think that some of the potential benefits for women working with predominantly female colleagues and supervisors might be:

  • An abundance of smart, compassionate, assertive, and wise females to serve as role models.
  • More female clinical bosses, program directors, and – especially in the laboratory sector – mid- and upper level managers, implicitly communicating the message that you can rise up the power pyramid (though unfortunately there are still plenty of roadblocks in the upper echelons).
  • Greater support for pregnancy leave, dealing with family issues, and part-time employment.
  • With respect to genetic counseling colleagues and immediate supervisors, sexual harassment is probably much less likely to occur than when working in a male-dominant profession.
  • A historical record of tackling clinical, ethical, professional, and employment challenges that has resulted in the incredible expansion of job opportunities and scope of practice, tacitly suggesting that young genetic counselors can – and are expected – to continue this tradition.

There are also downsides to working in a pre-dominantly female environment. Until relatively recently, salaries could be shockingly low because women everywhere have always gotten the raw end of that deal. Another significant problem is that when men have power over women, it not uncommonly manifests in inappropriate sexual language and crude behaviors. Even if all of your genetic counseling colleagues are female, there are still plenty of male health professionals and administrators that you interact with. This environment can foster both subtle and blatant sexual harassment. The blinkers fell from my eyes about this issue when I was looking for a job right after graduation school. At one interview, I met with several male non-genetic providers who I would be interacting with. One of them looked at me and announced to the group “Well, this counselor’s breasts are a lot smaller than the counselor he would be replacing.” I was stunned by the statement, though I am ashamed to admit that I was too young and insecure to call him out on it. But it made me acutely aware of the pressures and tensions that women face when trying to deal with men on a professional level. As the Tom Waits song goes, there just ain’t enough raised right men.

Although women have made great strides in genetic counseling in gaining acceptance by patients and health professionals, there is still a glaring gap in the respect afforded to women based on their gender. In my clinical practice, patients and even providers very commonly refer to me as Dr. Resta, no matter how hard I try to disabuse them of that notion. This even after the patient has just signed an insurance coverage agreement form that specifically states that I am not a physician and I just handed them my business card that has no mention of an MD degree. Yet my female genetic counselor colleagues – even those a few decades closer to my age – are only occasionally referred to as “Doctor.” There may be several reasons for this but undoubtedly my gender triggers a near autonomic reflex to refer to me as Doctor.

I recognize that my observations are limited by the implicit biases inherent in being an upper-middle class white male. I am usually unblissfully unaware of the ways that my world view is filtered by my gender, heterosexuality, and socioeconomic status. So please tolerate and/or point out any of the blind spots in my speculation. But mostly I want to hear from the Good Readers of The DNA Exchange about their personal experiences – What is it like working in a predominantly female profession?

And while I am thinking about it, it would be equally interesting to hear about the professional views of genetic counselors who are ethnic minorities, are other than strictly heterosexual, have disabilities, or are otherwise under-represented. I encourage you to consider writing a piece for The DNA Exchange about the good, bad, or whatever experiences you have had in working in a profession where you are not quite like everyone else.



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6 responses to “On Being A Woman in A Woman’s World

  1. anonymous

    Thank you for this column. Like you, I mostly have just done my job to the best of my ability without giving too much thought to my gender on a daily basis (in my case, female). It did not occur to me until more recently that the reason I have not had to think about it much is because of the supportive environment working in a predominantly female field can create. As I’ve gotten older and heard stories of other women working in male-predominated fields, both of friends and stories in the media, I’ve become so thankful to have been able to work with so many strong and supportive female mentors and colleagues. I felt this support and understanding after starting a family as well, with other women, particularly other mothers, eager to pitch in for the unexpected work leave parenthood can sometimes demand.

    Gender biases don’t disappear in an environment like this. I have seen male colleagues doubted on the basis of gender or conversely, commanding more attention because of it. I have worked with male physicians who were equally supportive and those who were patronizing or inappropriate.

  2. Kara Bui

    This post brought back a memory from my interviews for grad school. I was point blank asked if I was drawn to the genetic counseling profession as a way to escape men. Fifteen years later, I can confidently say that you cannot escape men by becoming a genetic counselor.

    On a separate note, I have definitely benefited from having a family-friendly job with supportive co-workers and male and female bosses. But I sense that women who have never had children (by choice or circumstance) get treated differently in the workplace no matter if their coworkers/supervisors are male or female. There seem to be expectations that they should be more flexible with hours (i.e. being volun-told to participate in evening work events or organize extracurricular work activities). I’m not sure if this happens more often to childless men too.

  3. anonymous

    The female predominance was a significant secret downside for me before I entered the profession because I feared I’d be entering the new “typist” or “60s secretary” trade, and this was reinforced by other premed peers’ comments subtly degrading it for this reason. I had negative stereotypes of all-female professions also from having walked past nurses’ and admins’ areas at various hospitals and overhearing the sometimes vacuous conversation. I was not one for a certain brand of female empowerment and sisterhood popular in the media that I feared would predominate in the profession – the worshiping Beyonce, getting nails done for self care, a certain level of cattiness – it felt foreign to me.

    I write all this to say that, of course, my prejudices were off base. There are different types of people in every profession and I’ve found marvelous mentors and role models. The nearly all-female class I was a part of was one of the most supportive cultural groups I’ve ever been a part of, which was also foreign to me, having come from hyper-competitive high school and college. It’s not certain it was due to the all-female/nearly all-female nature, but that certainly played a large part. Our organization NSGC and profession rest on an ethos of collaboration and service, and I attribute this in large part to the connections and mobilization that predominantly female groups can accomplish. Finally, of course I appreciate the understanding regarding childbearing. I’ve also heard many a horror story from friends in, say, finance whose workplace supervisors are all males with stay at home wives and have no concept of what it takes to be a working parent. Understanding is not policy, but it sure goes a long way in these situations.

  4. Cathleen McCann, MS, LCGC

    Much of healthcare is still unconsciously gender-biased. In the last half of 2018, I began to interview prospective employers. Interesting to see who did and did not have their act together, and yet acted surprised when I let them know they didn’t meet my standards. It may be that they expected that as an older female, I should be grateful for whatever scraps were thrown my way at this age. But, experience….is priceless.

    Then there were the “I’m the alpha-male-you-will-answer-to” who questioned why I have held several positions in 20 years. My comeback to them was that if I were a male, making purposeful choices to move the professional ladder would be admired and seen as ambitious, but sadly I realized that “some in society” (yes, I’m talking to you, Bud) are sadly paternalistic when it comes to women (who should stay put and put up with whatever). It was clear that this is another double standard when women move in the job market, and rather than ambitious, are just plan suspicious.

    Oh, and many patients have called me Doctor – even after I correct them!

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